My First Time is a column and podcast series exploring sexuality, gender, and kink with the wide-eyed curiosity of a virgin. We all know your "first time" is about a lot more than just popping your cherry.
All hail the unappreciated hand job! Yeah, some people may look at this move as some subpar version of oral or penetrative sex, but that ain't right. Handies have their own sexy thing going on: They're
Male desire is a familiar story. We scarcely bat an eyelash at its power or insistence. But women’s desires – the way they can morph, grow or even disappear – elicit fascination, doubt and panic. In 2014,